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Well, fellow Hypographers, obviously I'm fishing for some relationship advice. I find myself in the uncomfortable situation where my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend (they were together for 7 years and broke up 3 years ago) is also his best friend. He even discusses our relationship with her! I don't like it one bit.  |
In the view of the male species; Me especially. Your BF was not, and may not ever, be ready to sieze the day (Carpae de em?)....
A Man, would break ALL ties, before starting a new relationship, because the Human Male is not an animal, looking for comfort in his harem!
We, the Human Spiecies, has found our comfort, in the intimacy of JUST one other Being.....Friendship, Trust, Love.
THAT'S, What Makes It Special!
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Can I trust him? Can I trust her?
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that's up to you.
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Am I being paranoid or unreasonable?
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Maybe,--No.
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Should I allow it to continue?
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that's up to you.
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Have you had similar experiences?
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Yes, But I learned that the toughest part of loving someone, is movin' on...
Ya cry, have a few drinks, and it feels like your heart is being ripped from your body, but Ya know what?...The Sun will still come up tomorrow.
I'm sure you have friends and family that Love you, just be yourself, they'll understand because THEY know your a good person.
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Sometimes I think men and women simply weren't made to be together...  |
Sometimes that's true! Relationships can't always be Lilies, and Lace.
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NB Anyone who suggests a threesome as the ideal solution will get some serious neg rep!  |
In your situation I would agree.
Please, If you feel the need, PM me.....But you will need some Quiet Time, even with family, to figure this out.
Now ther's an Idea!........Go Shoppin'......
Do something to Break this intensity of feelings and emotions that is making your head swim....
Feel like S*h*t don't Ya?
I went alone, survivor mode, fishing for eighteen days, before I could come back.
Be good, Be Safe, and may the Lord be with you always......Chendoh...
