don't worry, i am not one to throw stones, a brick maybe
When my boys were younger, i had the opportunity to be a stay at home mom. Due to extenuating circumstances, i was forced to go back to the workplace.It was difficult, trying to be supermom, i will admit, but i did not have a choice.With the dissolution of my marriage, the struggle was increased.It is important to take time and listen to your children, whatever the circumstance that you find yourself in. My oldest, now 18 and recently graduated, displays the charcteristics of a gentleman. He is kind, empathetic and sympathetic and intelligent. I could not possibly be prouder. My youngest, although in hormonal craze, still exhibits these qualities. I feel certain, he too, will follow the same path as his brother.
Unfortunately, Boerseun, in today's economy, it often takes 2 incomes just to make ends meet. The absence of parental influence, will indeed have an effect on the children.It is crucial for the parents to make quality time with them and be there for them emotionally. Responsibility and all that entails, should fall on both the mother and father, in order to provide the best emotional well being for their child
