Quote:
|
Originally Posted by Rebiu
Seems everyone thinks it is okay. Where is all the hostility one experiences in the real world? Does anyone hide this activity from their spouse? How often is to much? What fantasies are appropriate? Is chi that stuff that shoots out?
|
Intellectually speaking, masturbation is not only okay, it's good for you. It is a self education in the early years, and an excellent stress reliever in the later years. It has no known bad side effects, when practiced 'reasonably' and not 'excessively'. It is not morally degrading, or mentally harmful.
Emotionally speaking, it is a whole nuther ball of wax.
By 'reasonably' I mean that it should not be performed in a manner that is inherently risky, like the so-called "choking game" that has killed several young teens in Houston recently. Nor with sharp instruments. Nor with any risk of fecal or biological contamination. Nor while standing up in a canoe -- you get the idea. By 'excessively', I mean to the point where (for men) erection has to be forced. Or where it interferes with daily life. That varies by individual. Personally, I would say that 4 or 6 times a day is not excessive for some, perhaps for others.
What do you mean by a fantasy being "appropriate"?
And, NO, that is NOT "chi"!!!!!!
