Pamela, I hope I'm not too late, but please don't continue to use the castile soap on your hair. It is a very harsh soap that is (imho) slowly damaging your hair. The damage manifests itself as that curling that you describe, I think.
I shouldn't rush in with all these proclamations, but let me say that I've been making my own shampoo for about 15 years now, and have studied hair and hair care from a biochemist's point of view (finally using my degree!); so I have a philosophy and many opinions on this subject.
...and as for carcinogenesis, c'mon.... SLS is about as dangerous as aspirin....
Acetyl salicylic acid is a chemical name that sounds dangerous, but it's just aspirin.
Sodium laurel sulfate is the chemical name for shampoo-a mild detergent.
Potassium oleate is the chemical name for castile soap (I think); but whatever the fatty acid--oleic, lauric, linoic, or linoleic--it is still a soap! You're washing your hair with soap, not shampoo! And some manufacturers use tallow, coconut, or olive oils to make castile soap also; so watch out, don't get potassium tallowate!
Castile soap is liquid because it uses a potassium salt instead of a sodium salt-as shampoos and regular soaps do, but it is still soap even though it's liquid.
...this is from a google search about making castile soap:
"Your liquid castile soap recipe will include vegetable oil and potassium hydroxide, and the usual fragrance and essential oils."
Potassium hydroxide is like drain cleaner! Don't get any onya!
Well I'm just being silly. They use drain cleaner to make all the soaps and shampoos and detergents; so that's no big deal either. It just sounds scary because it's chemistry, and the basic ingredients can be dangerous.
But drain cleaner and vegetable oils (or tallow) and salts (either potassium or sodium) are not gonna be carcinogenic--even if you mix them together to make shampoo.
So don't avoid the SLS shampoos because you think they might be carcinogenic.
I'd worry about all the frickin' additives that they put in shampoos to make them magically new and improved.
That complex crap
is carcinogenic (more than likely) and can cause all sorts of skin reactions, so that's a good reason to find a good simple shampoo.
Just try and find a shampoo
without added "protein" and you'll be on the right track.
Try to keep it to simple or natural ingredients that you understand (and you understand SLS now) so SLS shampoos should be on a list of acceptible options.
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I could go on for hours about the physics and biomechanics of hair care and hair washing, but I'll save that for later.
You may (for a brief time) like the look of that fuller, wavy hair; but I bet it doesn't feel right, and that it gets dirty and tangled more easily than before. Am I right?
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p.s. It sounds as if you have a nice neutral castile soap with lots of essential oils, and maybe more. That is fine for the skin; but please reconsider the castile decision for your hair. It's going to continue getting more "curly and thick" until it starts breaking more easily--leading to other problems. "IMHO"
Ultimately I think it's the additives, not the cleansing agent that can be problematic.