You use a lot of
we statements, I disagree with much of what you say (not all of it) so 'we' may well be the wrong word. And saying what I need to do?...
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We can no longer afford the luxury of just intellectually coasting through life. We either become part of the solution or we remain part of the problem.
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Intellectual coasting through life, that's what you're doing here though, this thread changes nothing. Or does it? Individual perception... has nothing to do with what everyone else's position actually is.
WE do the best we can. We ARE evolving. Freud was obsessed by the fact we all want to get laid all the time and are dishonest about it due to whatever repressive dogma. What the point of it all was - it's ok to be gay or horny or flamboyant or dress in ladies things or..... (add 'quirk' here)...
WE get that already. And young people are getting laid a lot more than
we did a couple decades ago. Our teens don't care for all the 'norms' (games) we'd once observed as social ritual. And the games really were a facade, Freud would love it today to see so many changes in young people's attitudes and thier acceptance of cultural and sexual mix.
On the whole we are less repressed, so what is the social malaise, the neurosis
we are stricken with, if it is not Freudian in origin.
The Status Quo Is Bulls***
FEAR of public opinion, FEAR of not being pretty enough/clever enough/witty enough... there's your repression of self expression. Most of this comes from advertising and society, not parentage.
Snobbery, seperation in any form.
Psychology is the tool of the media to make you feel you are no good without everything they sell, without the look, the attitude...
And they keep raising the bar!
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like to be a part of, a contributer, valued, wanted, needed even, we want to love and be loved, to have a place, friends, and fellowship.
Love is the answer?
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the first five years of an infant's life determines to a great extent what the personality of that individual will be for their entire life.
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Have you noticed how dual income households are typical now. This never used to be. There was a parent home, not a babysitter. Tutoring, not TV as a babysitter...
What dual incomes achieved... was that the average wage could then come down... inflation rose slightly higher than wages over a period, and now we have dual income households struggling to cover costs, where before it only took one wage to struggle with a households costs

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It's becoming normal to 'not be there'. Many parents themselves trapped in the psychology of 'the Jones's" - doing their best to do their best by supplying their child with all that stuff...
"Our child will never want for anything" is a glib catch-phrase in this light.
Infants do not wan't any
thing, they are seedlings that need to be nurtured in the right light.
Love is the answer.
