weird thought on sexual drive

[niviene]

Originally Posted by Boerseun

I have a feeling that modern culture might have something to do with this, because it creates unreasonable expectations amongst women regarding their 'ideal man', and the men inevitably have to bull their way into the girl's pants, because these unreasonable images created by modern society simply don't exist. ...

B, I agree with you. I also wanted to point out that women are to blame for a lot of their own unenjoyment of sex... women tend to want to make their man happy (at least during sex... the rest of the time, maybe, if you've got a good one...) and they want their man to believe that they have given her this amazing multiple orgasm every time they have sex. Soooo, we fake it. God knows I have faked it plenty of times. I think I posted in another forum that I never had a real orgasm from sex (from intercourse, that is) EVER before I was with Scott (my fiancee). Probably for many, many reasons. But, I know from experience that we tend to fake it, so no, it's not just a bad joke somewhere. However, faking it makes that guy think that he's some kind of god in bed, when, in fact, he probably had no clue what he was doing or how to touch a woman. So, a bunch of guys go round thinking they are gods gift to women in bed, because all they've ever been with are other women who have "always had multiple orgasms" while THEY were with them, so if this next girl doesn't (probably because she's being honest, finally...), he thinks it's something wrong with her.

Another thing that women do is they let sex end when the guy finishes. Sorry, girls, but that's just not gonna get you anywhere. If you are both having sex, sex ends when you both finish, period! You don't just let your guy finish and then go to sleep.... imagine how guys would feel if we always finished first and then just went to bed? Do you think they would not say something? Women don't speak up enough about what they want, and I don't know why that is, even today. I always make sure that I explain it, or kind of hint at it, somehow, this is what I want, this feels good, this doesn't, etc etc, if he doesn't know exactly what feels good, I show him, and next time he does it on his own. This makes sex better every time! If women keep going into sexual situations and leave unsatisfied, what's gonna happen? They're gonna lose their sex drive. So, guys, if you want to keep having sex, talk to your lady and find out if she's really enjoying it or faking it. YOU will benefit in the end from finding out, I guarantee it. My sex drive has never been higher, and it makes me want to do things for him, not just myself.

Another side note - if you make a girl really happy in bed, she's a lot more likely to cook you a really great meal. Think of all the things you could get out of pleasing your woman by doing something that costs nothing and just takes a little of your time.... high return on investment, there!

[Boerseun]

Originally Posted by niviene

Another side note - if you make a girl really happy in bed, she's a lot more likely to cook you a really great meal.

Now that's the kinda advice I like...

[InfiniteNow]

Orby...

You ever tried to complete an extremely complex problem, let's say a math proof for example, while you are really hungry? Really tough to concentrate, right? Well, sex is a hunger, and it distracts us. It's like a clog in the drain and the water doesn't flow properly.

When you're done, the tension is relieved, the clog broken... water's flowing... and you are loose and free to concentrate once again.

[Pyrotex]

Originally Posted by InfiniteNow

...and you are loose and free to concentrate once again.

Yes, and all your Endorphin receptors are saturated!!

[InfiniteNow]

Originally Posted by Pyrotex

Yes, and all your Endorphin receptors are saturated!!

Great point Pyro. That will also give a greater degree of focus.


Clears the blockage.
Generates more happy chemicals aiding in concentration.


So, in sum, sex is good.

(real good if you're lucky )

[Pyrotex]

Originally Posted by InfiniteNow

Great point Pyro. That will also give a greater degree of focus...So, in sum, sex is good.

Reminds me of a poem from back in college:
Sex:
When it's good, it's very, very good.
But when it's bad, it's...
well, it's still pretty good.

A good point to remember in this discussion is that the most important organs of the body involved with sex are (in order of importance):
1. The brain
2. The skin
3. Internal sensory nervous system (there's a word for them I can't remember) -- the senses that tell you when muscles have clamped or released, etc.
Notice carefully that genitals, if listed, would be number 4.

[InfiniteNow]

Originally Posted by Pyrotex

3. Internal sensory nervous system (there's a word for them I can't remember) -- the senses that tell you when muscles have clamped or released, etc.

Proprioception
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proprioception

[Pyrotex]

Originally Posted by InfiniteNow

Proprioception

Bingo! Thank you. I will now use it in a sentence.

"When I hold my arms up in the air like this, it improves my television proprioception."

[Racoon]

Let me throw my 2 bits in,
cuz' i am a buttinski smart-ass sometimes.

There are 3 types of Proprioceptors.
1) Free nerve endings
2) Golgi-type receptors
3) Pacinian corpuscles.

Panician corpuscles are the least abundant of the three and are found in the tissues around joints and rapidly adapt following initiation of movement.

I suppose these guys play a role in weird sexual drive when you do funky positions like the piledriver or the helicoptor spin...

[Loricybin]

hurray for the female body!!!
and hurray for the male body too!!!
humans kick ass