Making Love

[Jay-qu]

Love is a black hole of the attentional kind!

and what do you do to a black hole? avoid it at all costs!

bloody time warps again..

[InfiniteNow]

Originally Posted by ughaibu

See this thread: http://hypography.com/forums/social-...confusion.html

Funny... I thought TFS created that thread...


Love is like a gravity well around which we navigate when in the presence of someone who stimulates us that way. It's like the ultimate distractor, sucking our attention away from almost all other thoughts.

Bills to pay? Bah, I'm in love.
Lawn to mow? Nah, I'm in love.
Homework to do? Later, I'm in love.
Project at work? Too busy thinking of her...


Love is a black hole of the attentional kind!

[Oriana]

Well from this females point of view, I think terms like "making love" are just there to describe an intimate act in a delicate manner. I don't know about most women, But sometimes I find terms such as "f***ing our brains out" just a bit crass for the situation.



(edited that, sorry. *lol*)

[Mercedes Benzene]

But sometimes I find terms such as "fucking our brains out" just a bit crass for the situation.

That's very true. It seems that a such a passionate act is deserving of more subtle terminology.

[Tarantism]

passion shouldnt be sublte!!! it should be flamboient! over-the-top! outrageously lovely! sometimes thats the best way to describe it. maybe.

[Oriana]

True enough Tarantism, I suppose you should have a little bit of both. subtle and over the top. :P

[Jay-qu]

Finding that unique combination and a person to share it with is what lifes all about.. that and revealing the deepest secrets of the universe

[Tarantism]

Originally Posted by Oriana

True enough Tarantism, I suppose you should have a little bit of both. subtle and over the top. :P

haha yes! over the top initaially, then when the feeling and shift in energies becomes apparent, its subtle and lovely for years...at least that is the hope? exciting and ever-interesting copulation is certainly a huge factor in my relationships.

[DFINITLYDISTRUBD]

For those unsure of the difference


It's love when you spend the night holding each other and you consider it time very well spent.
It's lust when you spend the night "just" holding each other and you're miffed that you wasted the whole night and didn't get any "action".

It's love when cuddling is just as good as lovemaking.
It's lust when cuddling is the price you have to pay for "getting some".

It's love when sex is a wonderful thing you share but not the only tie that binds.
It's lust when the future of your relationship is contingent on your getting some.

[Zephyrus]

I guess I think of sex differently than most. To me having sex is just lust. If you happen to have sex with someone you love then you are having sex with someone you love just like you can go to the movies or do any number of things with someone you love. I have never understood why people associate love with sex other than for guys using it as a way to get into a girl's pants (Lust).